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Stupid News: Week of March 17th

Here's what you missed this week on Stupid News:
-A man with a misfortunate name uses that name in a misfortunate way
-A woman is in trouble for allegedly assaulting someone with a pringles can
-A Tesla wanted to know if their car could determine what's real and what's not
-A man is fined over $100,000 in traffic fines
-A man is accused of stealing... lap dances

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Stupid News: Week of March 10


Here's what you missed on this week's Stupid News:
-A  man is suing his brother-in-law after his belly button was super glued
-a woman is accused of stripping down before takeoff on a flight to Phoenix
-One legged jeans are gaining in popularity
-A woman is accused of throwing a watermelon at her boyfriend
-A man is accused of swallowing over a million dollars' worth of diamonds

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Stupid News: Week of March 3rd

Here's what you missed this week on Stupid News:
-A woman is in trouble for vandalizing what she thought was her ex-boyfriend's car
-A man was trapped in his storage unit
-Florida man games... enough said.
-You wont believe what a Flaming Hot Cheeto resembled... and how much it sold for at auction
-"Thou Shalt Not Steal" is stolen

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Would you tell your friend if they smelled bad? Why you SHOULD and why you SHOULD NOT

 

Whether or not you should tell a friend they smell is a tricky situation. There's no one-size-fits-all answer, as it depends heavily on your relationship with the friend, the potential cause of the smell, and how you approach the conversation. Here's a breakdown to help you decide:

Reasons to tell them:

  • Kindness and Care: If the smell is something they're unaware of and is likely to cause them embarrassment or social difficulties, telling them (discreetly and kindly) could be an act of friendship. Imagine if the situation were reversed.
  • Health Concerns: Sometimes, body odor can be a sign of an underlying medical condition. If you suspect this might be the case, it's worth gently suggesting they consult a doctor.  
  • Long-Term Relationship: If it's a close friend you see regularly, the smell might become a constant distraction or even affect your willingness to spend time with them. Addressing it directly might be the best way to maintain the friendship.

Reasons not to tell them:

  • Sensitivity and Embarrassment: Body odor is a very personal and sensitive subject. Telling someone they smell could be incredibly humiliating and damaging to their self-esteem.
  • Uncertainty about the Cause: If you're not sure where the smell is coming from (e.g., it could be their clothes, their environment, etc.), you might be misattributing it to them.
  • Fear of Damaging the Friendship: Depending on your friend's personality and how you deliver the message, it could cause a rift in the relationship.
  • It's a One-Off: If it seems like a temporary issue (e.g., they just came from the gym), it's probably best to let it go.

If you decide to tell them, here's how to do it:

  • Private and Discreet: Choose a private setting where you can talk without being overheard.
  • Kind and Empathetic: Approach the conversation with kindness and understanding. Avoid accusatory language.
  • Focus on Concern: Frame your concern in terms of wanting to help them avoid potential embarrassment.
  • Be Specific (but Gentle): If possible, be specific about what you've noticed, but avoid being overly descriptive. For example, "I've noticed a slight body odor lately" is better than "You really smell sweaty."
  • Offer Solutions (if appropriate): You could suggest things like using a stronger deodorant or washing clothes more frequently, but only if it feels natural and helpful.  
  • Respect Their Reaction: Be prepared for them to be upset or defensive. Listen to their response and avoid arguing.
  • Leave it at That: Once you've said your piece, don't dwell on it. Change the subject and move on.

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to tell your friend is yours. Carefully weigh the potential benefits and risks, and consider your relationship with the person before making a choice.

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Let's Talk about Gratitude- Emily Wood joins the show to discuss what she learned

If you listen to The Julie Baker Show often, you know one topic I love to chat about is gratitude. It's something I have felt deeply and continuously chased in effort of living a more meaningful life.

Host of "At Home with Emily", Emily Wood, joined the show to chat about the full scope of what she learned about the physical and mental benefits of gratitude.

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NEW PODCAST LAUNCHES: Booktok comes to life with this Ozark's Podcaster

Alyssa Kelly joins The Julie Baker Show to talk about her podcast, Main Character Syndrome, which dives into and dissects popular books. It's as if you've got booktok right in your ears.

 

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Stupid News: Week of Feburary 25


Here's what you missed in this week's Stupid News:
-Eggs are so expensive one store is selling them individually
-A man reveals the worst morning on record
-A company is selling tubes of coffee
-A new app will allow for you to be escorted by armed guards
-Stanley is taking Stanley to court

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"Crushed: When the LIFE you want doesn't want you back"

Kiersten Lyons, author of "Crushed: When the Life You Wants Doesn't Want You Back", which releases in spring this year joins The Julie Baker Show to talk love, loss, and finding happiness.

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Lyons, a performer by trade, has found viral success on social media through her "Blue Healer Husband" series which has racked up millions of views and have been published on notable sites like Upworthy.

As host of a podcast under the same name of her first book, Lyons and her co-host explore in depth, detailing their "Crushed" moments.

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The Harmony House: The Purple Party, Kanye West, The Gabby Petito Documentary

The Harmony House is a non-profit domestic violence shelter and resource for the residents of Greene County.

The Kristen joins The Julie Baker Show to talk about an upcoming fundraiser, The Purple Party, which takes place Oasis Hotel and Convention Center on Thursday, April 3rd. Doors open at 6 p.m. with the event starting at 6:30.

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At what age should you give kids a cell phone?

The decision of when to give a child a phone is a big one, and parents have many reasons to wait. Here's a breakdown of the key concerns:

1. Brain Development & Mental Health:

  • Addiction: Smartphones and social media are designed to be addictive, with features that trigger dopamine releases. This can lead to compulsive use and difficulty focusing on other activities.
  • Mental Wellbeing: Studies show links between excessive screen time and increased anxiety, depression, and lower self-esteem in children and teens. Social media can expose kids to cyberbullying, unrealistic comparisons, and fear of missing out (FOMO).
  • Sleep Disruption: The blue light emitted from phone screens interferes with sleep patterns, leading to fatigue and impacting physical and mental health.

2. Social & Emotional Development:

  • Reduced Social Interaction: Excessive phone use can replace face-to-face interactions, hindering the development of crucial social skills and emotional intelligence.
  • Distraction: Phones can be a major distraction from schoolwork, family time, and other important activities.
  • Cyberbullying: Smartphones make it easier for bullying to occur online, with potentially devastating consequences for victims.

3. Safety Concerns:

  • Exposure to Inappropriate Content: The internet is full of content that is not suitable for children, including pornography, violence, and hate speech.
  • Online Predators: Children can be vulnerable to online predators who may try to groom them for abuse.
  • Privacy Risks: Sharing personal information online can put children at risk for identity theft and other dangers.

4. Academic Performance:

  • Distraction: Phones can be a major distraction in the classroom, leading to lower grades and reduced learning.
  • Impact on Learning: Some studies suggest that excessive screen time can negatively impact cognitive development and academic performance.

5. General Wellbeing:

  • Physical Health: Excessive screen time can lead to sedentary behavior, contributing to obesity and other health problems.
  • Outdoor Play: Children who spend a lot of time on their phones may have less time for outdoor play, which is essential for physical and mental development.

It's important to note that every child is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of when to give a child a phone. Parents should consider their child's maturity level, social skills, and individual needs when making this decision.

Many parents find it helpful to delay giving their child a phone until they are older and have developed the maturity and skills to use it responsibly. Some parents choose to start with a basic phone that only allows calls and texts, gradually introducing more features as their child gets older.

Ultimately, the goal is to help children develop healthy habits and use technology in a safe and responsible way.

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